Sailing Tea Time - embracing the worlds beauty
Names and Ages of people on the boat : Domi, Anna, Boróka and Katalin Bösze
Boat name/type: Jenneau
How long have you been living on a sailboat while travelling?
4 years
What were you doing before you moved aboard?
IT / Software
Motivation: What inspired you to embark on a sailing adventure?
Our motivation for this sailing adventure stemmed from a longing for a simpler, more connected life. We were always drawn to the idea of world exploration, cultural immersion, and family bonding. The sea offered a unique mix of challenges and peace. It was about extending our cherished 'teatime' moments – our symbol for quality family time – into a broader journey. This lifestyle was our way of breaking from the norm to embrace the world's beauty and mysteries together.
Any unforgettable destinations / moments you have been to or experienced?
We've experienced numerous unforgettable destinations and moments. Places like Fatu Hiva captivated us with its breathtaking natural beauty, while the atolls of the Tuamotu Islands offered an unparalleled sense of serenity and isolation. Bora Bora's iconic landscapes were truly a sight to behold. Each destination has left a lasting impression on us, enriching our journey with unique cultures, stunning vistas, and unforgettable experiences.
Is there a typical day for your family on a sailboat?
Our typical day starts early, usually around 6 AM. The kids are also up by 7 AM at the latest, starting their day with breakfast. After breakfast, we all participate in a routine boat cleanup, which has become a well-established part of our morning. The kids have their specific tasks in preparing and tidying up the boat for the day. Homeschooling starts around 8 AM and continues until noon, during which we either work, do repairs, or assist with their studies. Post-lunch activities vary from more studying, engaging in physical activities off the boat, playing with other boat kids, or exploring our surroundings. Our bedtime is generally early, aligning our routine with the natural daylight cycle. Exceptions arise when we're socializing with other sailors, or if remote work and different time zones require us to work at night. Our daily routine adapts depending on whether we're stationary or sailing. Even during crossings, we strive to maintain this structure as much as possible. Afternoon tea is a cherished ritual for us, and if necessary, we use the afternoons for shopping or other errands
How do you handle education and schooling?
We try to keep up with the Hungarian educational curriculum for our children. Every couple of years, the girls take exams to ensure they're on track. Most of the teaching is done by us, but we sometimes seek external help as well. We utilize textbooks and workbooks, along with the internet, to enhance their learning. Additionally, we incorporate local characteristics and experiences into their education, making it a more enriching and diverse learning experience
What were the biggest challenges you find about this lifestyle?
One of our biggest challenges has been adapting to constant change and unforeseen situations. For instance, dealing with boat repairs or when our travel plans unexpectedly extend, like staying an extra year in a continent or being isolated on an island. Ensuring daily provisions when we're far from everything can also be challenging.
Initially, adapting to living in a small space with the whole family was difficult, but we've managed to make it work. Despite this, we try to take the kids off the boat as much as possible for more space and movement. Interestingly, it's often hard to coax them off the boat as they've grown quite fond of their compact environment and enjoy playing with each other immensely. They engage in a lot of role-playing games and reading, often to each other, which keeps them thoroughly entertained.
Has this lifestyle helped you grow and learn?
Yes, this lifestyle has taught us to focus on what's essential and not to worry about unnecessary things. It has also made us more environmentally conscious – we don't buy many things that aren't needed. We live in harmony with nature, which dictates our daily life. We've become much more flexible and adaptable, easily accepting changes. Exposure to various cultures has made us more open-minded towards the world.
How do you connect with others while sailing?
Making new friends happens naturally as we meet other sailors in marinas or anchorages. We share stories, advice, and sometimes even travel together for a while.
Do you have any memorable cultural experiences?
We've had many memorable cultural experiences, particularly in the various Polynesian islands. We were fascinated by the simplicity of their lifestyles and deeply touched by their genuine, natural smiles and friendliness. Their artistry also left a lasting impression on us; each Polynesian region had its unique characteristics and styles, making every encounter a special and distinctive experience.
What Lies Ahead: Do you have future plans or new destinations in mind?
Our current plan involves sailing along the eastern coast of Australia up to the Torres Strait, then exploring Indonesia, Malaysia, followed by a visit to Thailand, and then heading towards the Maldives, Chagos. At that point, we'll need to make a decision whether to return to Europe via the Red Sea or to circumnavigate Africa or spending some more time around the Indian Ocean and its vicinity. The ultimate goal is to complete a full circumnavigation, and based on our current plans, we intend to set off on another round-the-world journey thereafter.
Do you have a heartfelt message or piece of wisdom or advice for people looking to embark on similar adventures?
Maintenance:
Expect more repairs than initially anticipated. Getting used to the idea of fixing things yourself is crucial. Often, we've found that we can do a better job than some so-called experts. It's essential to be self-reliant in maintenance.
Finances:
Living on a boat generally requires a lower budget than on land, with lower monthly expenses. However, unexpected repairs can be costly, so it's vital to have a financial cushion. People finance their journeys in various ways: some work remotely from the boat, others use their savings, and some even pause their journey to work ashore or develop businesses they can run from the boat. It's crucial to plan your finance strategy and have reserves for unforeseen expenses.
Adaptability and Respect:
Be prepared to compromise a lot. Weather and external factors often dictate your plans. Embrace change and treat new situations with humility. When entering new countries, it's important to respectfully adapt to their cultures and customs.
